Dec. 30th, 2012

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friends in relationshioppps....
ok idk where to post it but i should just get it off my chesttt>>./???
ok so i have a friend lets call her j or w/e
and j is in a relationship with this dude named n and he lives in britain.
i was totally cool with this until like a couple weeks ago when she started telling me kind of bad things about him??:
-he's 18 (that's fine)
-he drinks.... (kinda ok too, since in the UK he's of age)
-he drinks ALOT.. and she had to tell him not to invite people over his house after a certain time bc he parties and gets drunk(and they broke up over this once)
- she's black and he's white and like he calls her a monkey "affectionately" bc she's black but i think that's p racist and she's like "lol w/e"
-he hasn't really told his family about her and when they ask he's like "oh she's my friend lol" and his friends called her a "nigga(/er?)" once
- i found out last week that they sext alot... like everyday..??
- he HAS REALLY WEIRD KINKS AND IT'S REALLY...GROSS ... AND THAT'S COMING FROM ME WHO LIKES BARA BUT THIS DUDE LIKES WATERSPORTS AND DIAPERS..... CMON...((THIS ISN'T ACTUALLY LIKE "DANGEROUS" OR W/E IT'S JUST RLY WEIRD)))
-AND SHE LETHIM LISTEN TO HER PEE ONCE AND WHEN I HEARD THIS I CRIED FROM LAUGHING FRO M SHOCK
ok that's p much it but me and my other friend a were talking and she was saying how she was worried
because j always jumps into relationships with older dudes.. like a was telling me how she only knew j since the end of 8th grade (that's like a year and a half) and j has had 5 boyfriends and 4 of them were older dudes....
she also told me that once her dad caught her talking to a really older dude on a chat website when she was younger and he had to tell the dude to stop talking to her...
idk
i justl... hop she doesn't get her heart broken???
bc n is kind of an asshole?????